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Norms, Rules and Steadfast Love: Towards an Inclusive Theology of Intimacy

This article argues that defenders of the traditional view that marriage is the necessary condition for sexual experience generally make two impor tant mistakes. First, they underestimate how open to emergent forms marriage actually is. And second, they confuse marriage as a norm for sexual expression with marriage as a rule. This article attempts a simple clarification of this basic distinction and, in so doing, is able to throw con siderable fresh light on the place of marriage in the Christian understand ing of sexuality. First, there will be some reminders about how adaptable the institution of marriage has actually been and may continue to be. Second, attempts will be made to explain the differences between a norm and a rule. Finally some possibilities and consequences arising from this distinction will be explored. These will provide some promptings towards what is called here'an inclusive theology of intimacy'. Radical Christians are cautioned regarding their peremptory search for alternatives to mar riage. People inside and outside the churches who reject marriage may be rejecting versions of it which, while undoubtedly historical, simply do not bring to light the possibilities released by what might be called'the marital norm'.

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